Femdom, or the world of dominant females, has a giant allure to many people. While it isn't often talked about in public, the popularity would surprise most people. For those who are interested in femdom but have never tried it, they may be looking for ideas on what to do. One of the most commonly searched for ideas is Femdom Punishments.
To help you get some ideas, we have compiled a list of some of the most common femdom punishments. Please note that these ideas run from basic to advanced and that you should keep both yours and your partner's limits in mind. Preferences too.
Orgasm Denial
One of the most common femdom punishments is orgasm denial. Preventing your partner from being able to enjoy the pleasure of your scene can start to drive them crazy quickly. This can be extended over days to help a really bad sub learn their punishment.
Spanking
Spanking is probably one of the most popular punishments for any kind of dominant. It is easy and you don't need any special tools. However, not everyone likes spanking.
Other Forms Of Impact Play
After spanking, other forms of impact play are amongst the most common punishments. Other forms of impact play include whips, paddles, flogs, and similar items. Impact play varies in strength from light taps all the way up to leaving marks.
Bondage
Almost everyone who is in to femdom likes bondage play to some extent. Bondage covers anything that involves restraining a person. This includes ropes, chains, handcuffs, and more. You can be fully restrained to only having a single limb tied down.
Teasing
You might find teasing to be very simple, but it is a basic skill for any femdom. Teasing can be on the current scene you are in, but it can also be on anything that you might find as a punishment to your sub. With teasing you have to careful not to cross your sub's limits.
Name Calling
Along the same line as teasing, name calling is a basic punishment for any femdom to use. Name calling is often uses derogatory terms in a caring way. That being said, name calling can also include giving a sub a feminine name or a alternative name.
Feminization/Sissification
Feminization or sissification is fairly popular in the world of femdom. This is the act of making the submissive feminine. People like broad spectrums of feminization, it can be anywhere from simply making your partner wear panties to being fully dressed as a woman. There is also a wide variety in whether people want to go out in public or stay at home.
Cuckolding
While it has always been around, cuckolding has become more popular with the increase in sex positive culture. The act of cuckolding is where the femdom has sex with another man in front of their sub. This can be too much for some couples though.
Pain And Discomfort
Both pain and discomfort are commonly used as punishment methods. These take on a number of different forms, from the impact play mentioned above to cold showers. Everyone has their own tolerance for pain and discomfort so picking the right methods can be essential. Not everyone likes pain play either.
Humiliation
Many categories already mentioned here can fall into humiliation. Humiliation is the act of making a sub feel embarrassed and/or ashamed. There are many different acts of humiliation and it also depends on what embarrasses the person who is being humiliated. For example, some people might be embarrassed by wearing girl's clothes while others might not.
Ask For Permission
Another favorite punishment of femdoms is requiring their subs to ask permission before they can do anything such as watch television, use the bathroom, play games, or even leave the bedroom. If they fail to ask for permission, they can receive further punishment.
Service Tasks
Not everyone finds having a sub perform service tasks to be that good of a punishment, but it is a fairly commonly used tool. Service tasks include everything from making the bed to carrying out the other daily needed tasks. This can be combined with feminization to make the service even more effective.
Punishment is considered to an essential part of the femdom experience. A sub cannot be allowed to continue on doing whatever they want. Not only does punishment help keep a sub inline, it can be enjoyable and exciting on its own. We just caution everyone to make sure they pick the right punishments for their subs so as to follow limits and turn-ons.
Also read: The Most Common BDSM Punishment Ideas