Why Do Men Love Femdom BDSM?

One area of BDSM is femdom, or female domination. In female domination a woman takes control of a situation or relationship. While nothing new, femdom BDSM has been receiving a lot of attention recently. Not only are more men turning to it but with the power of the internet it is now very easy to find the perfect dominant female for your female dominant relationships.

This interest in femdom leaves those who have never considered it wondering what makes men love femdom. Today we are going to answer that question by looking at some of the reasons that men like femdom.

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A New Experience

Everyone likes trying new things. It is exciting to do something that you have never done before, especially sexually. Some people are brought to the world of BDSM simply for the fact they are interested in a new experience. This usually gets them in the door but the rest of the reasons they stay.

Role Reversal

A lot of men are powerful in their everyday lives. Or at least they feel as if they are. Sometimes when it comes to sex everyone likes to try the role that they are least familiar with. For those that feel dominant in their everyday life, that means they want to try being submissive in the bedroom.

Pleasing Others Makes You Happy

In almost every case bringing pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, to others makes you happy. And it turns you on further. There is something about seeing pleasure that you brought to someone's face that is like nothing else you will experience.

Adrenaline Rush

A lot of different activities can give you an adrenaline rush. Very few activities can give you both an adrenaline rush and sexual rush at the same time. BDSM is different in the fact that it can give you both at the same time. So many different BDSM kinks and activities can give you an adrenaline rush, from being blindfolded to being tied to being humiliated.

Stimulate The Senses

Many kinks stimulate the senses and as a Dominant there are only so many ways that you can experience you senses. Submissives on the other hand, have the opportunity to experience every touch.

Being blindfolded and having a femdom randomly reach out and touch you is an example of one of the ways that your senses might get stimulated. Being blindfolded and hearing someone enter a room can also be very stimulating.

Specific Kinks

There are a number of specific kinks that you will only be able to experience with being a sub. That means that many guys who like such a kink need to at least trying to submit to a woman. Pegging is an example of a kink that you will have to submit to a woman to experience.

Give Your Lover Something They Want

Some men like to find a dominatrix simply because they want to give their lovers something they want. A relationship is give and take. That translates over to the world of sex. Sometimes in order to get what you want, you have to try something someone else wants.

An Opportunity To Learn

Being a submissive gives a man a chance to truly learn about pleasuring a woman. Because the woman is in charge she can do the things she wants to and the things that bring her pleasure. All of that means you can watch and try to repeat it when you have a chance.

Anything you do sexually is a chance to learn. Keep an open mind and be willing to adapt to the situation. The more you learn and the more you are willing to try new things, the better each sexual experience will be.

Everyone Has Their Own Desires

Simply in the end it comes down to everyone having their own desires. Very few people share the exact same desires. Some men (and women) turn to Femdom Personals because it is what they like.

Like with any kink or sexual desire, everyone has their own reason(s) for liking it. The only way you will truly be able to understand the experience is by trying it. If you want to get into female domination there are plenty of resources out there and plenty of things you can try.

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